The first thing that deserves attention is the fact that women in our society give and receive compliments much more frequently
than men do. The data reveals that women give 62.9% of all compliments and receive 33.7% of them. Another interesting pattern
that is revealed by the data is that compliments between men are relatively rare 10.7% if compared to those between women
20.7% and that men compliment women more often than they compliment other men. Complimenting appears then to be a speech behavior
which occurs much more frequently in interactions involving women than men in our society. The following table illustrates
clearly this finding.
Complimenter - Receiver |
Number |
% |
Female - Female |
27 |
20.7 |
Female - Male |
14 |
10.7 |
Female - Child |
41 |
31.5 |
Male - Male |
14 |
10.5 |
Male - Female |
17 |
13 |
Male - Child |
17 |
13 |
Total |
130 |
100 |
Compliments according to sex of participants |
The table also shows that there is a clearly observable tendency for people to compliment children. 44.5% of all compliments
are directed to them and most of these compliments are given by women 31.5%. Moreover, it is worthy to note that of all compliments
collected none of it is given by a child. It is obvious that there are differences between males and females complimenting
behavior and these can be clearly seen through a fuller analysis of some aspects of complimenting such as topics of compliments
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